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Bijay
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Topic: Sarla Anisha BaniyaPosted: 08/November/2009 at 10:00am |
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Hello all,
Our daughter, Sarla Anisha Baniya, was born on a beautiful afternoon in Helsinki, on the 3rd of April, 2009. She was normal, healthy and perfect in every single way until the first 3 and half months of her life. We had the most wonderful summer of our lives with her. We bought our first home just because of her and we moved in to our new home on the 1st of August. Slowly things started to change in our new home, she became easily irritable, long spells of crying, eating problems, developmental milestones started to regress etc. Family and friends told us that it must be colic, even our local health centre's pediatrician thought so. Things started to go further downhill, then on the 21st of August we went to a private hospital in Helsinki, the neurologist told us the most horrible news of our lives-Sarla might have neurological problem. Hence, he referred her immediately to the Children's Hospital, we stayed at the hospital for the most painful 6 days ever, they ran different kinds of tests, scans, EMG, MRI, EEG and on the 25th of August they diagnosed her with Krabbe's. Our lives turned totally upside down, from the highest point of happiness to the lowest point of sadness in just a matter of few days. I am sure you all have gone through the same agonizing pain. Just the worst thing that could ever happen to any parent... After the diagnosis, her symptoms further aggravated drastically for the first month. And then it became stable for 3 weeks or so and now lately it's been getting worse again. She has probably now lost her eye-sight completely. In the beginning we started with Baclofen-for the spasms, and 2.5mg/day Levozin-for calming her down. But the Baclofen seemed inefficient, so we discontinued Baclofen and started giving her 2-3 mg/day Sirdalud. The Sirdalud and Levozin combination has worked quite well so far. She got a nasogastric tube right after the diagnosis, which relieved our feeding problem a bit but now and then she has been vomiting. Within one week, we have had serious problems with the NG-tube, we had to get the NG-tube changed 2 times already, because she vomited the NG-tube itself out through her mouth. We don't know what to do-whether we should get another NG-tube again or not get it at all. We are suspecting that she is vomiting the tube out because it irritates her throat. We have talked about the G-tube option with our neurologist but it doesn't seem the best option to us. Even though the G-tube might prolong her life a bit but we just don't want her to go through the pain of operation. She already has a lot of pain to go through. Our questions to you guys: 1. Have you had similar problems with the NG-tube? What did you do to solve it? 2. Sarla is extremely noise/sound sensitive, even the smallest bit of sound startle her, do you guys have any tips to ease the noise/sound sensitive problem? How long did the sound-sensitivity last? We try to be very quiet, but it does not always work. Thank you very much for reading Sarla's story. Lots of love and hugs from Finland. Bijay and Sirja P.S: I (Bijay) am Sarla's dad, originally from Nepal, and Sirja (pronounced 'S irya') Sarla's mom is a Finn. |
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Team Mason
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Posted: 08/November/2009 at 11:59am |
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Welcome to the message board. I'm sorry your jorney brought you here. This is a great place to ask questions and get support. I don't know much about feeding tubes as my son had ALD and he didn't have one. But I'm sure someone else will post to give advice. Praying for your daughter. Mary K
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Posted: 08/November/2009 at 12:56pm |
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Hi,
I'm so sorry to read about Sarla - its an all too familiar story... My son Rufus had an NG tube and regularly vomited it up - I became a real expert at putting them in at all times of day and night. He once got through eight in a week. I think with the benefit of hindsight I would have had a gastrostomy done for him if it had been possible - the tube clearly irritated him and aggravated his reflux problems. Its a very difficult decision to make and neither choice is ideal. Hope this helps give you some context. Best wishes, Kelsa x |
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Posted: 08/November/2009 at 2:08pm |
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Hi again Bijay, Thank you for posting Sarla's story. Evie had an NG tube & had the same problems with it. Later she had a G tube. She also startled a lot. I telephoned my daughter, Claire, & she promises to leave you a message here tomorrow. Hopefully others will write too. I would just say that our kids seem to tolerate the G tube operation very well. Ken.
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Posted: 08/November/2009 at 3:08pm |
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Hi Welcome to the board. My journey with krabbes happened long ago.My son did have an NG tube when he was about 14mnths old.He did not have problems but I suspect that he lost the ability to gag along with the ability to cough. As for the sound sensitivity that improved once he was given his anti seizure meds. I will be praying for Sarla .Thank you for sharing Sarla's story
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Posted: 08/November/2009 at 4:05pm |
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I'm so sorry to hear of your daughter's diagnosis. We are all here to off as much love, support and advice as we can. Our Makinley passed in Dec. 2007. She had an NG tube as well. We also struggled with the decision of whether or not to do a G tube. We never did. It's hard to know what is best for them. Makinley seemed to go through stages where her vomitting was worse than others...and at those times we had a hard time with the NG tube. I learned how to put them in myself so was able to do that when needed. Trying to control the vomitting through feeding amounts, etc. and medications helped lessen the vomitting. Makinley was also very sensitive to noise and such. Although she always was somewhat sensitive...again, medications that relaxed her seemed to help some. Feel free to come here for any questions you may have or just for an ear from those who have walked your path. |
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Posted: 08/November/2009 at 5:59pm |
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I am sorry to hear of Sarla's having Krabbe Disease. I can't help you with the NG tube but I do know that Madison startled easlily. When I went to pick her up I would always tells her 1,2,3 and then pick her up. She learned that she was going to be picked up or moved from that. I don't know if this is any help to you or not but this worked for us. Praying for you and your family. Diane |
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Posted: 09/November/2009 at 9:33am |
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I am so sorry to hear about Sarla. This board is a great place for questions, answers, and support. My grandson, Brady, was diagnosed at 4 1/2 months of age and passed on April 6, 2009. He had an NG tube for a short while in the hospital, and he did struggle with it and threw it up some, but my daughter and son-in-law opted for the operation and G tube. He did very well with the operation, and after a while Jessy was able to even push some watered down(with formula) cereal and baby food in a bolus feed through his G tube. It is a difficult decision to make as each child is so different. Brady startled a lot too, but after getting his meds right, he calmed down much more. I hope we are able to help in some way. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your whole family!
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Posted: 09/November/2009 at 9:59am |
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Hi Bijay, I'm so sorry to hear about Sarla's diagnosis. You're right, it's the WORST thing that can happen to a parent... not to mention happen to a child. Sending lots of love and thoughts to your family...
As for the G tube, I can understand your reluctance to proceed with the surgery. I would suggest speaking with the doctors about placing an NJ tube rather than an NG. This tube travels down past the stomach and into the small intestine, so the feeds are never in the stomach. It's a tube that needs to be placed in xray and you wouldn't be able to replace it at home if she vomits it up, so this may not be the best option if her vomiting is due to throat irritation. But if the vomiting is caused by reflux and the tube coming out is just a side effect of that, an NJ tube may be of help. I'm glad you've found a med combination that is working for her. If I have time later today I'll try to look of the US equivalents of those medications, in case it might be of help to some families over here as well. With regard to the noise sensitivity, we have had success with white noise to muffle other sounds. We keep a fan running most of the time, and other sounds seem to fade into the background a bit more and be less jarring. This has been especially helpful at night. I'm sorry your family is going through this, but I'm glad you found the message board. It's a great place to get support and information. Best wishes to you and your family, and hugs to your sweet Sarla. |
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Posted: 12/November/2009 at 12:50am |
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Glad you found us all here and im so sorry to hear of another child with Krabbes. My Son Jack passed away last April. he had a NG tube and he never really had any problems with it. He would vomit but that was mainly due to the speed of the feeds, so we had to slow them down. Startling and the sensitivity was also an issue, we did the following that really helped Jack. He was swaddled when we were cuddling him and also to go to bed, we were able to stop this after a while. This stopped the bigger jerky movements that he found painful. We would also play a cd of lullaby music, the same one all the time and this helped too. We also introduced signals to Jack so he knew that we were going to change him, move him etc. This was mainly playing a certain mucical toy etc so he would anticipate what would happen next. you can read about Jack at www.caringbridge.org/visit/jackmacpherson mel x |
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Posted: 12/November/2009 at 3:50am |
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Hello all,
Thank you so much for your support! The information you have provided has already helped us in making Sarla's life less painful. She had been without the NG tube for 5 days, today we got a new NG tube fitted. Let's see how it goes, if she still vomits it out then we'll let her throat rest for a longer period. She has been able to swallow baby food but no fluids. Dehydration might become a problem at some point without the NG tube (since she gets all her fluids via the tube). Her evening crying spells has got worse lately, last night we gave her Stesolid (an epilepsy med) for the first time, it did help her to fall asleep. But we don't know if we are gonna be using it more often. Btw, I forgot to mention in my previous post that we put half of normal size Durogesic patch on her back every other day. Durogesic was the biggest help in the beginning but now it seems she has got used to it. Maybe we need to increase the size of the patch. Please share your experience with Durogesic if you used it as well. Thank you! -Baniyas |
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Posted: 12/November/2009 at 8:47am |
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Glad to hear Sarla is doing better after a rest from the NG. They make products that allow you to thicken liquids so they're easier to swallow, which might allow her to get more fluids in orally. Thick It is one such product, and there are others.
Stesolid is equivalent to American valium, which has been helpful to many of our kids. Continued prayers... |
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D'Anne Mom to Jackson (late-onset Krabbe, transplanted 10/29/04) and healthy twin girls through PGD http://www.jacksonwhite.com |
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Posted: 12/November/2009 at 8:57am |
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Hi D'Anne,
We tried a similar product, Nestle's Thicken Up, a couple of days ago but it didn't turn out to be that efficient, we had to put at least 10 teaspoons of it to thicken 40ml of milk. Besides, Sarla didn't like it's taste. |
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Posted: 12/November/2009 at 7:54pm |
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With my son Steven, we thickened his baby foods with either rice with veggies and meal flavors and oatmeal with fruit and desserts (plus some added Real Butter for extra calories, he stayed nice and chunky). We fed him by mouth until 2 days before he passed. We only put an NG tube in the day before he passed when he had Pnemonia. It took a long time to feed him, about an hour each feeding, but since he was blind, and terminal it gave us that much more close time with him. Even in the end, I could tell he knew the difference between peas and Dutch Apple Dessert (his Favorite). I'm so glad we never took EATING away from him. A ng tube or g tube my be faster and eaiser, but if she will still eat by mouth and not asperate, try, if the Doctors say it's OK. It seems too many people go right to tube feeding as soon as they find out thier child has Krabbes and do not give their babies the enjoyment of eating. Everyone loves to eat!!!
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Steven "Peanut" Markel ~ 569 days, 7 hours & 31 mins. Alilia "Lilybug" Markel ~ 42 days & 6 mins. (passed away during transplant) Forever as my Angels!! |
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Posted: 13/November/2009 at 12:53am |
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I guess had we known about Krabbe we may have seen signs much earlier, but the first really big thing was when Evie just stopped eating overnight. She never took food by mouth again & so had to have an NJ tube. She did her best to tolerate it but would vomit it out often. Eventually the decision to have a G tube fitted was taken before Evie was too weak for the operation. She was much more comfortable with that. Evie startled easily too & Claire used to keep her swaddled in a sheet, & nursed her continually. Hope Sarla (& Mom & Dad) are doing well today. Ken. XX |
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Posted: 30/December/2009 at 1:32am |
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Hello Ken,
We have known Meri's family since September, we have kept close contact with them. They have been of immense help to us since the outset. At the moment, apparently them and us are the only two Krabbe's families in Finland. Meri is indeed a true fighter just like all Krabbe's kids. Quick update on Sarla's situation: Sarla has reached to some extent a stable state. We have been feeding Sarla by mouth for the last a month and half. We feed her usually 3 times a day, each feeding session lasting 2-3 hours. It seems Sarla's hearing has also deteriorated lately, since she is not that noise sensitive anymore. She still vomits now and then, which is the biggest problem at the moment. How long did the vomiting continue for your kids? Was it a phase or something you will never get rid of? We got the NG tube fitted after the diagnosis because she was completely breast-fed back then (4 and half months old) and she was not able to suck from the bottle either. Sarla was able to suck the breast milk as late as she was 7 months old, but not enough, hence we fed the additional breast milk via the NG tube. With the gradual introduction of baby food and gruel combination (fed by the mouth), we got the NG tube removed a month and half ago. In my opinion, whether the NG tube should be fitted or not depends on various factors such as the time of onset of the disease, vomiting, amount of food the child can eat/suck etc. Essentially, all the parents try to do their best for their child. |
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Posted: 30/December/2009 at 2:27am |
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Thank you Bijay, I'm pleased that you 2 families have linked up. So many families go through this illness never meeting someone who knows just what they are going through. My daughter never met another Krabbe Family until 6 years after Evie passed away. The internet has been a great help to many of our families, & has brought them together to share stories & information. Good to hear that Sarla is doing so well. I agree with you about the feeding tube but, in my families case, the first symptom that we saw was when Evie stopped feeding by mouth. She was never able to take food oraly again. All our children are different. This disease takes many differing paths. Again, thank you for letting us know that you are in touch with Meri's family. Please give Sarla a big hug from me. Ken. XX |
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Hello Bijay, I too am so sorry to hear about Sarla. It most definitely is the worst thing that could happen to a parent and their child. My daughter Zoe passed away 1/26/09 of Krabbes and I would like to share our experience with feeding tubes. We initially had an NG tube for Zoe which definitely aggrevated her gag reflex and caused her to vomit quite often. We chose to have the G-tube placed in hopes of making her more comfortable. Zoe continued to have problems with reflex and vomitting which progressively got worse until she lost the ability to gag or cough. I don't think the G-tube helped with her vomitting but I do think it helped with her comfort level. I know there are many Krabbe's kids that have great success with the G-tube and the recovery from the surgery is quite fast. However, every child is different and therefore the way they respond to different treatments vary. Whatever decision you make will be right for Sarla. As for the sound sensitivity, our Zoe experienced this as well. Her medications seemed to help with that quite well. I think the med that helped with her sound sensitivity the most was Clonazepam (Klonopin). We also used Baclofen which really helped relieve her muscle spasms. Before we got the dosings right on her meds, white noise helped her to settle quite well. At night, I would turn the tv onto a "snow" channel and turn the volume up to drown out any other noise. She slept much better with white noise in the background. I hope this helps you to make a more informed decision. You've come to the right place for advice and support. I'll be keeping your family and especially little Sarla in my thoughts and prayers.
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Posted: 12/January/2010 at 10:06am |
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Hi Sabrina, (learned your name by reading Zoe's story)
Thank you very much for sharing your experience with NG tube, G tube and sound sensitivity. At the moment we are feeding Sarla by mouth. The NG tube did aggravate the vomiting in our case as well. We got rid of the NG tube almost 2 months ago. She still vomits a lot, at times she vomits 5-6 times in a day. I don't think we are getting the G tube at all, our Sarla is so weak at the moment, and she is going through a lot of pain. We just don't want her to go through any additional pain. The sound sensitivity is not an issue anymore. I suppose she doesn't hear that well anymore. Today has been very rough for us, our fighter has had a high fever (for the first time since her birth), fortunately the temperature has come down a bit now. Sarla has been crying on and off the whole day today (~11 hours) for some reason, could it be because of the fever? It's strange since she has not been crying so much for the past a month and half. A question to everyone on this forum: would the vomiting issue ever go away? |
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Posted: 12/January/2010 at 11:42am |
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Hi Bijay, I'm sorry to read that Sarla is having reflux & vomiting problems at the moment. I have brought another string to the top so that you can see what others have said on this subject. You can use the "search" facility on this forum to find related topics. It is very easy & useful too. Ken. XX |
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Posted: 12/January/2010 at 5:26pm |
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Hi again Bijay, I'm sorry I forgot to sign my name with my last comment. As for the vomitting; this is something Zoe struggled with all of her little life. There were days when she would vomit 5-8 times a day. We tried everything, with no success. I'm afraid nothing really helped. Her vomitting did slow quite a bit as she grew weaker, but never went away. I know you will have lots of questions as the disease progresses, but please remember that every child takes their own individual path. No two kids are alike. What one may struggle with, another may not. I would like to make one suggestion though. There are some formulas out there that I learned of (after Zoe's passing) that many kids have done very well with. The formula's are basically broken down into amino acids so their bodies don't have to work so hard to digest it, they can simply absorb the nutrients. I know the name of one is Neocate. I know there are others, but I can't recall the names. I'm happy to hear Sarla is doing fairly well with being fed orally. That really is wonderful. Like Evie, once Zoe started refusing to eat (4 1/2 months) she never ate orally again. Please don't ever hesitate to address any questions or concerns you have. I have found this board to be the best place for answers. Sincerely, Sabrina |
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Hello Bijay, I'm sorry I am so late to welcome you and the others to the board, but I have not been on here much. I am so very sorry for you and your family. I can't give you any advice on treatments and medications, because when our Linda went through it there was not much knowledge about the disease and no internet, so she didn't get anything. All we could do was keep her as comfortable as we could. You can read her story, if you wish, when you click on the www below. I just noticed your birthday, and I couldn't help thinking: here we are, 25 years after we were losing our little girl, and there still is no universal screening. Hopefully that will change in the very near future, so no other child and parents will have to go through it ever again. Hugs... |
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I AM VERY SORRY TO HEAR ABOT YOUR DAUGHTER HAVING KRABBES DISEASE.. MAKE HER COMFORTABLE AND LOVER HER KISS HER HUG HER, MY SON LOVED BEING KISSED AND HUGGED.. EVERY MOMENT SPEND WITH THEM IS WORTH IT.. THESES BABIES ARE ANGELS FROM PARADISE. LIVE IT LARGE WITH YOUR PRINCESS..MY SON AHD AN NG AT FIRST HE USDED TO THROW UP THEN I GOT THE FROW CARE SYINGED AND MADE THE MILK GO VERY SLOWLY.. THIS MEANS 80ML IN 40 MINUTES.. THEY CANT TAKE SO MUCH MILK QUICKLY THEV GOT A SMALL STOMACH. I HOPE THIS HELPS. RUBINA |
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Today we celebrated Sarla's first birthday. You can read more about her first birthday from here: http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/sarla/journal
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Happy 1st Birthday Sarla!!!
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Sarla passed away on the 12th of July. There is a new entry on her caring bridge website. (http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/sarla/journal)
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Dear Sirja & Bijay,
No words of mine can possibly help you at this moment in time. Pat & I are so sorry to read this sad news, but feel privileged to have been such a tiny part of Sarla's life. No one knows why these children of ours pass away when they do. The decision is theirs & theirs alone. They cannot be rushed, they cannot be held back. If you are religious people you may find strength in knowing that Sarla felt that the urge to be with her Maker was so strong that she just had to go. Now she is free, she has no pain, she can fly amongst the stars. Look in the night sky, you will find her shining brightly. She joins so many children who were waiting to greet her. She is happy & I hope that one day you both will be too. We send our love to you both. Ken. XX & Pat too. |
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Oh my....our prayers are with your family at this time.
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Denise
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Posted: 20/July/2010 at 1:34pm |
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I haven't been on the forum lately. I am so sorry to hear of Sarla's passing. My heart goes out to you and your family. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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Becky Ruth
Brady Cunningham's Grammy 04/16/08-04/06/09 Forever loved and missed |
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Posted: 05/August/2010 at 4:54pm |
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It broke my heart to hear this sad news. i am very sorry to hear that sarla lost her battle.its been 7 months since my sons gone to heaven. i miss him loads i know how it feels,but be strong she's free from pain enjoying her time with her freinds, she can move run do everything she wants there. shes more at peace. be strong. i know it hurts and makes a scar that never heals.we all need each others support. be strong love rubina |
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